Today we are going to discuss the methods of confirmation that can best verify the message that you have received.
1. The confirmation of God’s written Word – the Bible. Everything that God says will agree with his written Word. He will never tell you to sin or go against a teaching in His Word. This can simply clarify many “messages”. When we read the bible we should not have any preconceived ideas of what it is saying.
2. The confirmation of Godly counsel. God has placed people in our lives to help us to hear His voice. These people may include pastors, teachers, parents, and godly friends. In most cases, they will confirm the voice of God to you and help you to see His plan. This is not to say that you should rely on them only. These people are human and can have their own feelings and fears distort their objectivity. However, they can be a very valuable source of confirmation when you are uncertain of God's voice.
3. The confirmation through circumstances. Christians can carefully studying their situation for indications of God's will. Some Christians have called this the Gideon method or "putting out the fleece." When God told Gideon that he was to lead Israel into battle against their enemies, Gideon put a fleece out on the ground in order to receive a sign that God was really speaking to him. If you feel led to use this test, come to God with a humble attitude and not a spirit of testing Him. Pray for God to reveal His will and carefully watch the circumstances that relate to that decision.
Remember that prayer is a conversation. When you ask God to talk to you, be still and listen for His voice. If you expect Him to speak and you are listening for it, He will speak to you regularly. God wants you to hear His voice and He will reveal it to you.
*Please note that the following resource has been used for research http://www.allaboutprayer.org/how-do-you-know-god-is-speaking-to-you-faq.htm